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The truth is, though, that it’s an incredibly simple and casual thing. I mean, I ask “honey, do you want to go for a walk?” too; I don’t just grab him by the arm and start dragging him down the street. It’s natural to ask someone before involving them in an activity.

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Cliff Pervocracy, “Asking.”

This whole article on consent and stuff, just… *fangasm*

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I am also in no way obligated to say yes to anything. And if I said ‘No I don’t really want to go for a walk’ you could go for a walk yourself or maybe I would want to go for a walk later or maybe we could just do something else. And that would be fine. And unless I volunteered the reasoning behind it, then you don’t need to know why or you ask once I say I don’t want to talk about it you let it go. It’s literally one of the EASIEST things.

Claiming otherwise is a trademark of rape culture. Pushing for a reason when the other person is not comfortable giving one, has none in particular, or has said they don’t want to share is a trademark of rape culture. Feeling you are entitled to either the action itself or a reason behind a no is a trademark of rape culture.

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Reblogging for RIGHTEOUS TRUTH.

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autisticproblems:

Autistic Problem #102: Attempting to talk to people you aren’t familiar with.

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lifedeathtoptips:

Sending it to Love It! means, of course, that soon everyone be doing it. Stay one step ahead of the curve and DON’T attach a balloon to your car. Your car will be the one without a balloon.

EVERYBODY! DO THIS! PLEASE! (and reblog)

bonedust:

shadesofsky:

TOO CUTE

kiss

mwaaaaaaaaaaah

sexreeducated:

Masturbation for Cis-Men

Most men learned early on that touching their penis is pleasurable. They may begin by rubbing it against things that feel good (like pillows and sheets) or simply begin stroking it - some men prefer additional lubrication some prefer a dry hand. The thing with hand jobs is that other than the fact that having another person perform a hand job on them, no one will ever do a hand job on a guy as good as they could do themselves. We don’t usually speak in generalities here but this seems to be a universal phenomenon. So, for all you women out there the best way to learn to do a great hand job on your man is to watch what he does to himself. There are so many nuances from person to person that it’s unimaginable. Hand position varies widely, along with speed, angle, and motion. Some prefer to stand up, some want to sit, some enjoy reclining. Position may depend on the situation.

The main thing we discovered about developing a “How To Male Masturbate” is that we simply cannot include all of the techniques we came across. Men are much more socialized towards their penises than women have been towards their vulvas for many, many years. It seems that because men learn to handle their penises to urinate and the penis is a sign of virility, male masturbation has been more reinforced in our culture than female masturbation. Therefore, they’ve had A LOT of time to develop hundreds of ways to masturbate. So, other than the basics we’ll just include a few trends here and let you personally explore the rest of them on your own…

Knowing the lay of the land is important.

Anatomy of the penis:

Glans: The head of the penis

Frenulum: The underside of the glans; ** the most sensitive part

Shaft: The length of the penis

Perineum: The area between the anus and the testicles

Testicles: Where sperm is made and stored for ejaculation.

To lube or not to lube?

Try it both ways and see what you like. Most men begin experimenting early on with hand lotion and soap in the shower. Do yourself a favor and graduate to one of the many amazing lubes out there. Maximus is a great thick lube for jerking off.

Masturbation Techniques

Full, single hand
Using a single fist is the most basic male masturbation technique. Simply wrap one entire fist around the shaft of the penis and begin stroking up and down.

Two Fists Together
This works especially well on men who have more length. Wrap both fists around the shaft and stroke up and down.

Two Fists Alternating
This variation used each hand one at a time but allows you to alternate. You can even experiment with one fist going up and the other down.

Two Finger Method
Many men who prefer to focus their stroking on the glans (head) of the penis prefer this method. Using just the thumb, pointer and ring finger from one hand rub the head of the penis vigorously.

Thumb and Finger Rings
Make little circles with your thumbs and ring fingers from both hands. Encircle around the penis and stroke up and down.

Male Masturbators

There are a great many different objects that you can thrust your penis into that will simulate penetrative intercourse. This can vary from toilet paper rolls to fruit (watermelon or cantaloupe). Other foods like the infamous apple pie from the movie “American Pie”. Rest assured that if you can think of it, it’s been done.

A slightly cleaner option is one of the many male masturbation toys on the market now.
Everything from the popular Head Honcho to the much-loved Fleshlight has been quite a hit with men when it comes to vaginal simulation.

Masturbation Variations

Intensify the experience by adding anal or prostate stimulation.

Aneros: An easy-to-use prostate stimulator.

nJoy Pure Plug: Anal plug that slides in and stays put.

Vibrators take some of the manual labor out of masturbation by providing direct, intense physical stimulation. Some tried and true models:

Fukuoku—fits over your finger, so you can still stroke, while getting an added buzz.

Cock Rings add sensitivity by keeping blood flow in the penis.

no foreskin? so much for not generalising

The only reason North Carolina hasn’t become a part of Uganda, Nigeria or one of those backwards places where lynching people because of their orientation is encouraged is because everyone in power there hates black people. Really hates them

South Africa requires “Made in the Occupied Palestinian Territories” labels on products from the region in place of “Made in Israel” labels, the trade ministry said.

themindislimitless:

ninaesse:

zikrayat:

samirathejerk:

themajesticbim:

jewishcomplaints:

This is an outrage

link

South Africa kicks ass.

<3 south africa

South Africa!!!

THIS IS FANTASTIC

This is beautiful and amazing <3

oh this is *gooood*. Remember, Israel and South Africa were pretty close in the 70s and 80s…

AND THEN TRIGGER MADE A FACE HA!

quackquacks!

distortionsoul:

starsinthegutter:

silverilly:

thefireinhiseyes:

stfuhypocrisy:

[TW FOR RAPE/SEXUAL ASSAULT]

internal-acceptance-movement:

In other words, stop telling victims that they need to change their actions in order to prevent sexual assault and start teaching perpetrators of sexual violence how to stop dehumanizing, objectifying, and raping other human beings.

OMG! I love this! Finally a non gender-exclusive version of this!

Always reblog.

i agree with the above. its nice to see a non-gender exclusive list that doesnt leave out men, trans*folk, and non-binary people.

Never not reblog this.

quaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawck!

thefrogman:

[rockpapercynic]

It must be awful, being a homophobe. Having to spend all that time obsessing about what gay people might be doing with their genitals. Seeing it in your mind, over and over again, in high-definition close-up. Bravely you masturbate, to make the pictures go away, but to no avail.

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—	Charlie Brooker, in ‘Some people are gay in space. Get over it’, comments on the reaction to news that video game players can now identify as LGBT. (via guardiancomment)

darklorddiscount:

peetas:

imagine if there was a chemistry fandom and people shipped elements with other elements and then other people were like NO THAT ONLY FORMS A COVALENT BOND IONIC BONDS ARE BETTER and they have ship wars over sodium chloride and sodium carbonate

and instead of saying “forever alone”, we’d say, “forever a noble gas”

And a civil war over whether van der Waals bonds are canon or not

Uncutting: A short note: On Feminsm and Circumcision »

sexreeducated:

I believe that it is literally impossible and cognitively dissonant to consider oneself a feminist and still think that circumcision is okay. Circumcision is a way of telling males, from birth, that they are expected to be tougher than females and should be able to put up with…